I seriously just laid down in bed and started thinking about how some mommy blogger's feel about meeting other "BIGGER" mommy bloggers at events like "BLOGHER" (one I hope to attend this year again). I remember being there last year for the first time, going through the buffet line or sitting at a table and reading the other name tags around me and these types of questions running through my mind the whole time:
Did I recognize their names?
Was their blog familiar to me?
Did they know who I was?
Did I feel "NOT WORTHY" as a blogger to be eating lunch with them at my table?
I remember hearing someone say, "oh my gosh...do you know who that is?" "It's so & so from such & such blog...they are HUGE"! Then I remember thinking...SO WHAT! I truthfully don't get to flustered over this type of MEETING...people are people (no matter what). Celebrities are people too, just like us. Bloggers are no exception. Even if they have an amazingly popular blog...they are still everyday people (some mommies like me) that spend time on their computer doing exactly the same thing I do (at least what I hope I do). Networking, socializing and using their talents to create a place where people want to come and read.
Do these qualifications make us CELEBRITIES of sorts?
We work for free (basically)!
We are promoting not only ourselves (so you'll read our blog) but the products we are talking about as well!
If we post personal pictures in our features...you see our faces, our families faces, have an insight into our daily lives (kind of like paparazzi following us around, right?)! The fact is...we are our own paparazzi...
Remember...Mommy Bloggers...don't get an inflated ego as your blog starts getting more attention (I am talking to myself here too).
I had to talk myself down yesterday when my @oneboredmommy Twitter handle was blinked (for a few very brief seconds) on "The Talk" on CBS. Did I feel special? Of course I did! Do I think it really made that huge of a difference to my blog? Probably made more of a difference to the show's viewership that day, since I blogged about it, tweeted constantly about it and face booked everyone I knew to watch the show. Even people who had never heard about it before.
I GUESS THE ANSWER TO MY QUESTION IS...NO!
On rare occasion, I will meet someone who will recognize the name of my blog. In reality, I am still a mommy of four, who has found an outlet to socialize and communicate with people on a more frequent basis than most mommies. Does that make me UBER special, special enough to feel like I should be walking in a spotlight all day long...NOT AT ALL! If we are doing what we do, with the right heart & mind, then we are doing it to make a difference for the companies we are blogging about...not ourselves, right?
I love what I do! I am thankful for my readers! I am always excited to meet a new client to blog for! Do I feel like a celebrity? Probably not so much! If you could see how I look most days, when I am blogging in my pajamas with no make-up on...I think you'd probably agree with me! But hey, I won't pass up the attention if I can get it too!